the borg

resistance is fertile... if i find myself having resistance to a conversation it's because it's something i really need to hear, resistance is close to fear and needs to be fought against by being very clear, and present and willing to accept whatever is, get through this resistance acting as a friction within to the bliss, learn the lesson with a frisson of excitement as you get near, dear we can do this together if we are capable of taking advice, liking being criticised and breathing through the rising tide of anger so that we keep it inside unless or until it needs to be untied, more often than not it's an overreaction or a false perspective on the situation, so let it go, once you see it for the lie it was when you told it to yourself, then i expand who i thought i was to include aspects i don't like, to find the bits and bobs that I do, and love them all, how about you? :) + <3